The Questions You Stop Asking

There is something I’ve noticed over the years. We don’t stop asking questions because we become older. We stop asking questions because we’ve already decided what we’re listening for. Children ask questions because they assume they don’t...

Who Are You Becoming?

There is something I’ve come to appreciate over the years. Becoming rarely happens all at once. Neither does drifting. Most people know who they want to become. Patient. Courageous. Generous. Trustworthy. That isn’t the question. The question is: What is...

Knowing Isn’t Enough

There is a question I’ve been asking people for years. If knowing changed people… wouldn’t we already be different? Most of us already know far more than we consistently live. We know we should have the difficult conversation. We know listening is...